House says most people text the way they wish to be texted—so look at how he types his notes (hopefully he will do the same for you! If he compliments your looks, maybe he craves physical compliments.
If he keeps it brief, maybe he's not a texting dude.
“Thinking of you.”This could work with your boyfriend of multiple years, but send this to a guy you only recently started dating, and you may not realize you’re delivering a digital billboard that says you’re really, into him—which could frighten him off, Davis warns.
From a guy’s perspective, this could be too much, too soon. Let’s do it again soon.” Before you get serious with someone, dating should be fun.
“It's way too easy to get carried away, have sexually-driven texts, and kill the relationship before you have the opportunity to ever meet,” she says.