My sex drive doesn’t magically disappear when I don’t do it, but I do find other outlets for all this pent-up energy and emotion. Between a sex fantasy with myself or sex fantasies lived out with others, online or in living color. I want to stay connected, not addicted, and live freer. Since being that timid 11-year-old with an affinity for fantasy and solitude, I’ve settled for masturbation amid the raging waters of my same-sex lust and male disconnect.So there is nothing about sex, including masturbation as a form of sex, that is forbidden in Judaism.
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But the truth is the question has been coming my way for a long time and I’ve managed to dodge it. ” It seems to me that the question is loaded with that angsty appeal we learned when we were children and mom said it was time for bed, “Ah, mom!
My motivation to answer is impaled on the horns of a dilemma: do I, a married woman, pass you on to some one else with more “experience” for the answer OR do I tell you the truth which is undoubtedly not what you really want to hear in which case you may happily use my married status to disqualify the advice? One more book…one more page…one more sentence.” It is human nature to plead for what we have been told cannot—at this certain point in time—be ours. Can I look at ______…touch _______…just maybe I could ______….” It seems to me the question is wrought with you begging permission from me to wiggle past God’s truth about the sacred act of sex being confined to the marriage bed.
First, from my limited study of ‘normal’ psychology, and more specifically, of human sexuality, I understand that masturbation is a common, natural, and ‘normal’ activity for most human beings, starting at an early age; it becomes a problem when it is excessive, displaces other normal sexual outlets that may be available, or becomes abusive, compulsive, uncontrollable, or self-destructive.
From this perspective, you, as an unmarried healthy male would very likely experience the urge to engage in this form of self-gratification – there is no surprise in that being the case.
I can’t promise I’ll never masturbate again; that’s a hard promise to keep.