I am in the exact same situation but having used this site for a few months now I am fully aware of the situation of guys vs girls.
If you know any women on the site look at the site from their point of view.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...
And I'm not into to going to parties to hookup with drunks, which is pretty common hereunfortunately.