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She picks fights, picks the wrong guys, or maneuvers relationships to end because it gives her control.

(Which usually doesn’t last very long since, no matter how pretty and smart she is, she is no fun to be around.) The truth is that The Bitter Gal has been playing the victim for most (if not all) of her life.

Her life isn’t going the way she wants and she just can’t figure out why.

So the only way you really can empathize is to know their side of the story.

Men and women are different in many ways, but we’re more the same than you may think. We all have dating disappointments and horror stories.

The Wow Me Woman is a midlife gal who still thinks that excitement is the key to judging if a guy is a good match. Men sense her quick judgment, which leaves them feeling deflated, unattractive and powerless.